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What are you best at?

  Do you know the answer to that question? If yes, then I think you are wrong. Nobody can know what she/he is best at because nobody has tried everything that can be done in this world.  Our life is like a river. We are all moving in one direction, taking turns depending on the choices, some that we make and some that are made for us.  The point is, you can only cover a finite area. Nobody has done everything in her/his lifetime.We just accept that what we are doing is what we are best at. How do you know for sure that there isn't something else with which you can become world no. 1 or richest or fastest or biggest of them all.  Is there a way to find that? No. But you can keep shooting, trying different things if you like, till you hit the bulls' eye. This might make you mad for the world, a person who is best at nothing. Or, it will take you to the top. The trial and error method.  Second method that we all try and mostly fail at is, select/get dumped into a career/field

Dont peek into my screen !

Don't you hate when someone peeps into your phone while you are on Facebook or Insta or Twitter. The irritation is at max w.r.t Whatsapp. I am having a private chat and someone is monitoring it from the corner of his/her eye. Lifts, bus, canteen, Parents, Friends, colleagues or strangers, the irritation level is same.  We talk about social media stalking where people talk advantage of the anonymity and stroll over your personal space. However, it is not that irritating unless the person actually starts showing up everywhere. But, the stalking from physical world into the social world is killer. Its like someone has seen me naked. The concious reaction followed by insecurity led irritation is tremendous. Why do you need to see whats happening on my screen? Why do you need to see what actresses I follow on insta, what messages I am sending to my Fiance, what videos I am watching on Youtube, what pages do I like on Facebook? If I am looking at something interesting and can be shared